Posted by admin | Posted in Cheating Husband | Posted on 25-08-2011
One of the first questions that comes to our mind knowing the infidelity of our husband is,
My husband cheated what do I do now? , and
How do I handle this cheating of my husband?
We are now in one of the most emotionally painful and draining phase of our married life.
The husband cheating on us is something that has the power to affect us emotionally and physically more than any other issue or condition. This is something that is so difficult to digest because he is YOUR man, and the whole truth of his cheating on us is hard to accept.
There are certain very important things that you need to know and be aware of when you are faced with the situation of a cheating husband.
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# Hold back. NEVER take quick and rash decisions.
I can really relate and understand your feelings and emotions you have right now. But for the sake of a better resolution to the issue of your husband cheating on you, you need to hold back from taking quick and rash decisions as that could ruin the relationship further.
We need to hold back a bit now than ever, as the pain is so intense that we try to do something quick and immediate to find a resolution to the issue and end up doing something that is totally not apt and right for the situation.
We need to get our thoughts and actions together first before dealing with the issue of your husband cheating on you. If you were once in love, you can fall in love again. Believe that. See how you can rebuild the love.
# Know and Address all the issues as to why your husband cheated:
Even if we make a conscious and a sincere decision to forgive our cheating husband there will still be some issues that we need to know answers to, some issues that needs to be addressed and some issues that has to be dealt with overtime. It should never happen to us that at the end we feel regretted.
Without addressing the core issue that resulted in his cheating you may end of falling again to this issue. First address the issue and slowly start to rebuilding and restoring the honesty in your marriage..
# Know why your husband cheated on you:
We need answers from our husband as to know why he had to cheat on us. What was that, that you were not able to provide him or what was that, that he had so much dislike in you that he had to end up cheating on us?
We need answers from him for these in a way that would facilitate you getting back him and not antagonizing him and your relationship.
Yes, you should get answers to all of your questions from your husband but in a way that would keep the respect and love intact and also in a way that could get him open up with all the issues he has or he sees in you.
Always keep in mind to keep your emotions in check and not to speak or do anything that could have a negative and lasting consequence in your relationship. You need to handle this with lots of maturity and patience.
Starting to restore and rebuild the honesty helps to resolve the core of the issue. Check how you can restore Honesty in your Husband and in your married life.
# Don’t drag your husband’s cheating outside the home:
At times we make a grave mistake of taking this issue out of our home to our friends and other family members. And almost all of them regret it later. This is something that you can never take I back. So stop and avoid any bad-mouthing about your husband to others.
Always think twice before you act or speak on anything related to this subject outside your home. Be doubly sure that you would not regret for your actions and words later. If you are already feeling that you have done something in haste without really giving it a thought, just take a pause on all your actions for a while.
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