Why my husband hates me? – What can I do about it ?

Posted by admin | Posted in Marriage | Posted on 23-09-2011

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A lot wives who are going through issues in their marriage ask me, Why my husband hates me? , and I am not really able to understand what are the issues in our marriage or with me that he has to hate me as a whole.
Did you husband say that he hates you ?
Do you feel that your husband really meant it and it was not said in a moment of anger?

How to get over an affair and restore peace in my life

A lot of times we say a lot of things that we literally don’t mean but are extremely hurtful to others. When we hear something of this sort from our husbands it really hurts us.
And when that involves about him “hating” us, that is even more painful and depressing to us.

First and foremost,

We need to understand and analyze as to what are the things that are happening in our married life that is “forcing” the husband to say such hurtful things to we their wife’s.
What is the frustration all about in our husband that he has to hate you!!

# Overcome Husband’s hate BY Changing your behaviors, expectations and attitude:

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How to keep your husband in marriage from divorce, affairs and cheating

Posted by admin | Posted in Marriage | Posted on 23-09-2011

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As as wife it is really important to know how to keep your husband in marriage from cheating or affairs which may finally end up in separation or divorce. We MUST know what will keep our husbands in love with us and also we need to be aware of things that could risk our marriage.
There is nothing TOO difficult for us or anything that is totally new to know how to keep your husband.

How to keep your husband in marriage from any affairs

Are you worried or concerned that your husband is moving away from you?
Do you see a gap developing in your relationship with your husband?

It is really a difficult thing to go through as lot of unwanted thoughts cross your mind. You are not really able to understand how far things have gone in your marriage.

Below are some of the fundamental things that you need to know and act on to keep your husband from any divorce or cheating or affairs in spite of all things that is happening between you and your husband.

First and foremost,

# Keep in mind your husband’s emotional and physical needs

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What are the signs of emotional affair in my husband?

Posted by admin | Posted in Affairs | Posted on 15-09-2011

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Understanding Emotional Cheating and its signs on a Husband.

Below are some emotional affair signs that can indicate trouble in your relationship or marriage. Just finding one or two of them may not indicate anything initially. But if you gradually see a lot of them happening with your partner then it’s really the time to step back and give a thorough check to make sure it things are really true and your partner is in an emotional affair with some one.

# 1. You start doubting that your partner is sharing their intimate emotional feelings with the other person and is actively spending more time with them than that is really required of them; be it with a co-worker at the work place or with a friend of theirs.

# 2. You notice that they are not telling the truth on whom they are meeting and what really is the reason to meet them.

# 3. You are able to feel that there is a gradual decline in the physical intimacy in your relationship/marriage.

# 4. They have started spending a lot of time away from home either at the work place or some where else.

# 5. They are

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Husband’s Emotional Affair :How to deal with that and the signs.

Posted by admin | Posted in Affairs | Posted on 15-09-2011

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Do you feel that your husband is having an emotional affair?

Hope you would have by now know what exactly is an emotional affair and how is it different to an affair that is physical and cheating and infidelity in general.

An affair of any type first begins to create an emotional distance between the husband and the wife in the marriage. We need to understand that physical intimacy with the other person involved in the affair may not be there always.

But remember that an emotional affair has more power to spoil a committed relationship or a marriage than the act of physical affair / adultery.

How does an emotional affair usually begin?

An emotional affair usually begins with an innocent friendship and gradually turns into an emotional dependency and emotional intimacy where one person is too much involved emotionally into the other person.

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What to do with a cheating spouse?

Posted by admin | Posted in Cheating Spouse | Posted on 25-08-2011

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My spouse Cheated on Me – What Do I Do?
A spouse cheating on his partner is one of the most painful and difficult issues a marriage can face. One of the worst betrayals a wife can ever face is cheating from her husband.
So now, are you worried as to what to do with a cheating spouse now?
You might be wondering what you did that pushed you to this particular phase in your life trying to cope with the ultimate betrayal from the man you loved the most in this world.

Choose One:

For women with cheating spouse , a life knowing the affair and dealing with them can be extremely painful and depressing. You are now seeing your husband in a totally different way and also your relationship / marriage. You might be thinking and worrying as to what good is still left in your marriage and your relationship with your husband.
Some of the fundamental things that you need to be aware of and follow are mentioned below.

# Don’t plan to end your marriage

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How to deal with cheating? – Know the right things to handle it.

Posted by admin | Posted in Cheating | Posted on 25-08-2011

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Dealing with cheating is one of the most painful and emotionally depressing issues that can happen to any women. The betrayal and unfaithfulness has forced us not to think of anything else other than his cheating. May be the thoughts have just totally flooded your mind. With all this happening to us, It becomes really important for us to know, how to deal with cheating?

The damage has been done to our relationship in the form of betrayal and unfaithfulness. So we need to understand and accept that to deal with the cheating and then rebuilding the trust and honesty will take some time and effort not only from your partner but also from you.

What to do with a cheating spouse and How to Survive Cheating The best and proven step-by-step ways to deal with cheating

There are certain things we need to know and do within ourselves and also certain things on our partners/spouses that will help us to deal with their cheating.

Some of the fundamental things you need to do are,

1 – Erase the images from your mind…
2 – Rebuild your self-esteem…
3 – How to talk about the details…
4 – How to find out why it happened…

# Deal with cheating by –

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How to get over a cheating man?

Posted by admin | Posted in Cheating Man | Posted on 25-08-2011

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It is really crucial and very important to know, How to get over a cheating man? We women find it really difficult to get over the cheating of our partners as we women are emotionally more attached to our partners than men.

To get over a cheating man requires us to know and understand the fundamental things on which our relationship is build and then act upon the advice given below.

The betrayal and the unfaithfulness of them can easily devastate the women both emotionally and mentally. So its becomes really critical for us to be well aware of the healing process.

How to get over a cheating man and survive the cheating The PROVEN GUIDE to get over cheating and Survive an affair.

Below are some of the fundamental things we need to be aware of and follow while we are trying to get over any cheating man.

# Starting the recovering process to get over a cheating man:

The recovery process in a way is like starting all over again mainly for the reason that betrayal and unfaithfulness were involved and the trust as of now is at a very low point in your relationship / marriage.

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Husband cheated what do I do? – Tips and Advice to handle it.

Posted by admin | Posted in Cheating Husband | Posted on 25-08-2011

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One of the first questions that comes to our mind knowing the infidelity of our husband is,
My husband cheated what do I do now? , and
How do I handle this cheating of my husband?
We are now in one of the most emotionally painful and draining phase of our married life.
The husband cheating on us is something that has the power to affect us emotionally and physically more than any other issue or condition. This is something that is so difficult to digest because he is YOUR man, and the whole truth of his cheating on us is hard to accept.
There are certain very important things that you need to know and be aware of when you are faced with the situation of a cheating husband.

 My husband cheated what do I do ? PROVEN step-by-step ways to deal with cheating husband

# Hold back. NEVER take quick and rash decisions.

I can really relate and understand your feelings and emotions you have right now. But for the sake of a better resolution to the issue of your husband cheating on you, you need to hold back from taking quick and rash decisions as that could ruin the relationship further.

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When your Husband Cheats… – Know what you should do

Posted by admin | Posted in Cheating Husband | Posted on 25-08-2011

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It’s really a painful and awful time when your husband cheats on you. The feelings of betrayal and your husband’s unfaithfulness towards you are really hard to come in reality with. These feelings are so overwhelming that it disrupts our daily life, our thoughts, our emotions and even our sense of judgement on things happening in our marriage and life.

We need to collect our emotions and thoughts together and come in reality with our husband’s cheating. Unless we are stable enough we will not be able to deal with this depressing issue of cheating effectively.

There are certain very important and fundamental things that you need to be aware of when you are dealing with the cheating from your husband in your marriage.

 What to do when your husband cheats PROVEN step-by-step ways to deal with cheating husband and survivig his affair.

# When your Husband Cheats-“Beware of Negative thoughts on him”:

When your husband cheats on you it is natural to have a lot of negative and bad thoughts about him. Beware of those negative and nasty thoughts about your husband. They have the tendency to overwhelm you and derail your recovery and the fixing process.

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How do I get over an Affair | How do you get over an Affair

Posted by admin | Posted in Affairs | Posted on 10-08-2011

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Are you asking to yourself, How do I get over an affair like the one I had to face right now? An affair can devastate even the strongest of the relationship because of the fact that it brings in painful and difficult emotions such as betrayal, anger, resentment and even humiliation to say a few.
To get over an affair is really difficult because of the strong emotions involved. So it becomes really critical to know how to deal with your affair related issues in the best possible way and what do we need to know to handle these situations and come out better and get over your affair forever for good.

How to get over an affair and restore peace in my life

You also need to know answers to,
– Will I be able to restore the love as in the good times?
– Will the same not happen again?
– Will I lose out on this battle?

With adequate information and detail in knowing how to handle the issues related to an affair and investing some effort it is very much possible to get past these emotions and actually making your relationship stronger than it was before the affair.

Read below the some of the fundamental guidelines for, How  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

Recovery from an affair | How to recover from an affair

Posted by admin | Posted in Affair Recovery | Posted on 10-08-2011

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What are the things I need to know and act on to know, how to recover from an affair? Will I be really able to recover from an affair?


These are some of the questions that we need answers to during the process of recovering from an affair. One of the main reasons why a lot of people are not able to recover completely from an affair is because they are doing the right things at the wrong time.
Below are some of the fundamental things that will help you out on your Recovery.

Give the recovery process some TIME:

We need to give some time for the recovery. It’s never a quick fix. To have trust again on our partners will only happen over a period of time. So understand the importance of patience. Also the pain and hurts will subside over a period of time as the trust starts developing between you two.

“Remember the good times” during recovery from an affair:

Try to keep reminding you of the good things that brought you both together. This is really important because this is one of the main things that gives us confidence in the recovery process. Gradually you  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

Spouse having an affair – How to handle it

Posted by admin | Posted in Spouse having affair | Posted on 10-08-2011

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Is your spouse having an affair, and

Are you finding it difficult to get over the affair your spouse once had? and trying to find what is the best way to handle your spouse having an affair?

Read on, one of the most toughest and emotionally painful and depressing feeling in a marriage is to know that our spouse whom we love from the bottom of our heart is having an affair. Too many thoughts are hitting your mind as to why our spouse had to do something so unfaithful and betraying the trust we have in them.

How to handle and get over spouse having an affair

You can’t stop thinking about your spouse’s affair and you do not know how to try to get over it. First and foremost keep in mind that, YOU DON’T DESERVE THIS. But since it has happened, you need to know how to handle your spouse’s affair without any major issues happening in the days and weeks to come.
Here are some of the best ways to handle your spouse’s affair. Knowing and acting as per them will put you in a lot better state and help you to regain the trust and the confidence that was lost in your marriage. And  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

How can I get my boyfriend back?

Posted by admin | Posted in Get Boy Friend Back | Posted on 09-08-2011

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How can I get my boyfriend back?

Was constant misunderstanding, fights or another women the cause of the separation? Do you long with all your heart to have your boyfriend back?


Lot of times the boy friend leaves us for some reason or the other, after a while or immediately after, we long to get them back on to our lives. Our thoughts and questions are always trying to know how can I get my boyfriend back. This might be easier provided you take all yours steps following and doing the right steps and actions.

First things first – get yourself together:

It is very important to calm down your emotions and not to let your emotions control you. It is really difficult to keep an optimistic frame of mind going through a breakup and when the boyfriend leaves you. Most of the relationship experts say that a confident attitude and a calm demeanor can help a lot in getting things together and helping us in getting our boyfriend back.

Get boyfriend back: Don’t show desperation:

To begin with, don’t beg or chase him – this would only make him reject you more. More than him you need some time  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

How do I get my ex back?

Posted by admin | Posted in Get Ex Back | Posted on 09-08-2011

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Are your finding it difficult to get back your ex boy friend / husband? Are you not sure what exactly to do to win him back?


Almost half of the people who have a breakup ask, How do I get my ex back? Once we are separated we still have a lot of love and feelings for them, and think that we to get my ex back and should fix all the things that caused them.
Getting back your ex boyfriend or a husband might look to you as a very difficult thing. Remember it will always be difficult or even impossible if you try to get them back without you changing certain things and / or him changing some things on his side.
Men may not like a too emotionally needy girlfriend or a wife. Men always like their women to be capable enough to take responsibilities for certain things in their life and relationships.

Getting your ex back requires some change on you:

So the first task would be to let them know and see that you are capable of changing yourself for the betterment of your relationship.
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Cheating in a relationship.

Posted by admin | Posted in Cheating | Posted on 28-07-2011

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The most painful experience in any marriage or relationship to to know that our husband/wife or boy friend/ girl friend is cheating on us.

We love and have a lot of respect and affection for the other person in our relationship and the fact that the person is cheating on us comes down on us pretty hard.

There is nothing more hurting in any relationship than this.

Please read through all our posts that can help you in overcoming and recovering from the pain and the hurtful emotions.  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

What to do with a cheating husband?

Posted by admin | Posted in Cheating Husband | Posted on 28-07-2011

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Are you really not sure What to do with a cheating husband?.
A cheating husband is one of the hardest things to be dealt with in a marriage or a relationship. It is really difficult to understand and come in to realization with this truth. Too many questions and emotions go through our mind. We need to know the right steps for; what to do with a cheating husband.

 What to do with a cheating Husband? PROVEN step-by-step ways to deal with cheating husband

Below are some of the fundamental things you need to do or questions you need to get answers for, when you are faced with a cheating husband.

Don’t immediately jump on to your husband:

Our trust and confidence in our husband has been shattered and we are overwhelmed by pain and hurt. The first wrong move most of us do is, we jump on to our spouses, confront them, get into an argument, pour our heart out with anger and feeling of upset and even a bit of hate. Never ever get into doing this.
Take some time to get yourself together before you bring up this with your cheating husband. Handling and reacting to the cheating with our thoughts and heart  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

How to get through an affair?

Posted by admin | Posted in Affairs | Posted on 21-07-2011

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The most painful experience that can be inflicted in a relationship or a marriage is the unfaithfulness or the infidelity of the spouse. It really becomes very important for us to know how to get through an affair without losing our spouse and bringing back the love and the joy in our relationship.
Now your mind is busy with questions as to why he started having the affair, what was wrong with you etc etc.

How to get over an affair and restore peace in my life
– Should I forgive my partner/ spouse for their affair?
– Will my life be the same ever again?
– Should I breakup or get separated from them or even get a divorce?

The biggest task for you is to know How to restore your relationship with your partner and how to rebuild the relationship / marriage after the partner has had an affair.

# To get through an affair, First work out on your issues if any:

To get through an affair we first need to work out and fix any issues that we have before we get to work with our partner trying to get through it. The foremost thing is to get control of all the feelings that your are through knowing  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

How to stop an affair? – Know the reasons and Overcome them.

Posted by admin | Posted in Affairs | Posted on 21-07-2011

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Many of us are totally caught in shock and painful emotions and feelings when we discover the unfaithfulness of our spouses. We need to know all the right steps and the right way to know How to stop an affair that is trying to destroy the happiness in our relationship and marriage.

For many of us, after learning that our husband is having an affair, can feel like the end of the world.
The common emotions we feel are,
1. we feel betrayed by our spouse
2. we feel rejected by them
3. we feel angry and shocked
4. we feel sad and shocked
5. we feel confused and disgusted

Understand the physical aspects:
Men are more prone to the guilt of infidelity and affairs than women.
And as women we need to understand that there are several aspects and reasons behind the infidelity of a man.
Generally men are able to engage in infidelity with less guilt than a woman.
Men at times try to find an opportunity to have sex with someone who is hotter than their partner or wife or else someone who is more sexually exciting.

Understand the behavioral aspects:
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Husband having an affair

Posted by admin | Posted in Husband in an affair | Posted on 21-07-2011

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Our husband having an affair is one of the most devastating and painful things that can happen to us.
Even the thought of your husband being unfaithful to you hurts our feelings and emotions a lot.

When we come to the know that the husbands are having an affair, apart for the emotional hurt that we are in, we are also faced with lot of questions on what to do and how to handle this.

Some of the questions that crosses our mind are,
1. How should she deal with this?
2. Should I separate from him or not?
3. How should I get him back?

Usually a husband’s inclination to be unfaithful to his wife is more pronounced after the initial years of marriage when kids and career take most of our time.

Understand the fact that cheating and have affairs are not purely because of the physical reasons.
It could also be because his emotional needs and desires are not being met by you.
There is something is not working between you two, the way he is expecting.

Give yourself sometime :

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How can I win him back? | How do I win him back?

Posted by admin | Posted in Win Him Back | Posted on 20-07-2011

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How can I win him back and make him love me again as before when he is not even ready to talk to me or see me? How do I win him back when all my attempts are not helping me in any way?

The key is to keep trying is a noble way, try to show the difference you have made in yourself even when you are trying to get in touch with him and get into a dialogue. We are all humans and are bound by love and sooner than later he would start seeing and realizing the change in you.

At time we may get into this thought process, as time goes by things would heal by itself.  This way of thinking may not hold good here, as they may start looking for a new partner or try to settle down with someone else.

I have to let go the past first:

Don’t keep bringing up the past issues and troubles. Let it go off your thoughts.By letting go of the past it allows those burdens and hurt to not come up in every situation or every time that you get frustrated. That is not to say  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

Help me get my boyfriend back.

Posted by admin | Posted in Get Boy Friend Back | Posted on 20-07-2011

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What should I do to help me get my boyfriend back?

I am finding it difficult to get my boyfriend back. I need some helpful advice and suggestions that will help me get my boyfriend back.Without knowing and acting some of the basic things, you are at a downside on succeeding to get your boyfriend back.

Make sure you follow the things below.
Take your steps slowly and gradually:
Keep in mind not to expect for things to get fixed instantly. Also never lose your hope and get discouraged.Remember, it will always take some time and effort to sort out things and make it work.Make a decision to stick on to your efforts and you have a great chance to get back your husband.

Remember and let your boyfriend remember the past:
Show him you are still the same good women he used to love.Try to together remember the good times of the past and the love you both shared for each other.

Never ignore problems:
Remember, ignoring the problems that created this separation and trying to start the same relationship against will not work or end of with the same result again.Because the same problems will come up again  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

I want my ex to want me back | How can I get my ex to want me back

Posted by admin | Posted in Get Ex Back | Posted on 20-07-2011

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Are you feeling that,
More than me chasing my ex to want me back I want my ex to want me back.
And, How can I get my ex to want me back.
Some women when we are in a relationship we tend not show a lot of love and affection their now ex. They would have gone easy on their relationship then only to find now that they are no longer in their lives. The lack of showing true affection from our side in our relationship / marriage has made them move away. So worst they have decided to find love and affection some where else.

How to get over an affair and restore peace in my life

So How can I get my ex to want me back? becomes the most important thing that we needed to know the answers to.Your are at the right place to find help and answers to these questions of yours.
These are the 3 main things that you need to know

1 – How to makeup with him.
2 – How to win back his love.
3 – How to be a women he adores you.

Make sure that you are doing some of the below fundamental things right to help you get  »»» CONTINUE READING   »»»

How do I get my husband back? | Help me get my husband back

Posted by admin | Posted in Get Husband Back | Posted on 20-07-2011

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Many of us are faced with the difficulties of knowing what to do when the question how do I get my husband back? becomes the foremost critical thing on their marriage. We as women as more emotionally attached to our husbands them them.

Many of us are looking for the right advice and are searching for answers and help and now help me get my husband back becomes the most critical thing they needs answers for.

 Help me get my husband back
Has your husband moved away from you?
Are you noticing your husband gradually moving away from you?

As we are looking for answers as to how do I get my husband back, a lot of things comes to our mind. What exactly should I do? How do I do that without making the situation even worse? Will I be really successfully in getting back my husband?

How can I help myself in the best possible way to help me get my husband back? There are some fundamental things that we need to take care in this situation as we want your husband back and cannot lose him.

The first and the foremost thing here is,

# Get my husband back – Get yourself together:

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